Choose christening gifts that are appropriate to the occasion.
A baby's christening is an important event for Christian families. For them, baptism means entry into their faith, and eventually, heaven. After this occasion, the family will want to celebrate and those in attendance traditionally bring gifts for the child. Etiquette books say a gift isn't necessary; it's the event that's important . Still, most guests choose to bring gifts anyway. Because a christening is a religious celebration, frivolous gifts are considered inappropriate. However, there are a variety of presents worthy of the occasion.
The Christening Gown as a Gift
Though some people believe it's up to the godmother to buy the baby's christening gown, traditionally it's passed down through the generations. Etiquette doesn't dictate godparents having to buy the christening outfit; anyone can give this as a gift. However, before deciding to purchase a christening gown, check with the baby's parents to make sure they don't already have one.
Christening Gifts from Godparents
Being a godparent is an honor. Godparents are often close friends or family members who the parents trust to spend time with and even look after their child in the event of an emergency. Gifts from godparents are always special and should reflect the child's religion. Some common christening gifts from godparents include silver or gold necklaces with cross pendants, or St. Christopher medallions. Godparents might also buy the baby's first Bible, one with pictures. A more traditional gift from godparents is an engraved silver cup or spoon, but these have generally fallen out of fashion.
Other Christening Gift Options
Many close friends and relatives like to give savings bonds as christening gifts. Parents always appreciate this investment in a child's future. Guests might also give money in a card, special books, religious medals, wall crosses and plaques imprinted with prayers.
Gifts don't have to be religious. However, it's considered inappropriate to give toys or other items that aren't reflective of the occasion. In fact, many parents request their guests make a donation to a charity in lieu of gifts, while others request no gifts at all.
According to etiquette expert Emily Post, a traditional christening gift is a a silver mug, a porringer, or a knife, fork and spoon, marked usually with the baby's name and that of the giver. These items aren't as in vogue today, but they can be used as a reference to choose gifts that are tasteful or that will become treasured heirlooms. The frivolous and impractical have no place at a christening. Choose a gift reflective of the occasion.
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